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	<title>Comments on: Spring cleaning inside and out</title>
	<link>http://herablehands.com/2008/05/08/spring-cleaning-inside-and-out/</link>
	<description>in the garden, in the kitchen and on the page</description>
	<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 09:56:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: sandra</title>
		<link>http://herablehands.com/2008/05/08/spring-cleaning-inside-and-out/#comment-63623</link>
		<dc:creator>sandra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 May 2008 04:36:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kelly, I love reading not only your posts, but the love for you that pours out from your readers. And I'll sit back and say a silent prayer of thanks for the my MIIL. I will count my blessings. I need to on a regular basis.

Love you to pieces.

sandra</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kelly, I love reading not only your posts, but the love for you that pours out from your readers. And I&#8217;ll sit back and say a silent prayer of thanks for the my MIIL. I will count my blessings. I need to on a regular basis.</p>
<p>Love you to pieces.</p>
<p>sandra</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly</title>
		<link>http://herablehands.com/2008/05/08/spring-cleaning-inside-and-out/#comment-63561</link>
		<dc:creator>Kelly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 10:26:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, Darcy! Right back atcha.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Darcy! Right back atcha.</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly</title>
		<link>http://herablehands.com/2008/05/08/spring-cleaning-inside-and-out/#comment-63560</link>
		<dc:creator>Kelly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 10:14:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Cath, I don't think that sounds radical, but I think Carol would just not get things done at all if we didn't jump in. She is doing a lot of sorting of things in the house. Oh, Maude there are so many things. These people were big collectors. But the yard will just go to pot if we don't help out or hire someone for her. So frustrating.

Thanks so much for your continued support. It means the world to me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Cath, I don&#8217;t think that sounds radical, but I think Carol would just not get things done at all if we didn&#8217;t jump in. She is doing a lot of sorting of things in the house. Oh, Maude there are so many things. These people were big collectors. But the yard will just go to pot if we don&#8217;t help out or hire someone for her. So frustrating.</p>
<p>Thanks so much for your continued support. It means the world to me.</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly</title>
		<link>http://herablehands.com/2008/05/08/spring-cleaning-inside-and-out/#comment-63559</link>
		<dc:creator>Kelly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 10:11:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you Kate. Love you too and you know I'm drawing much inspiration from the way you write so openly about your journey.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Kate. Love you too and you know I&#8217;m drawing much inspiration from the way you write so openly about your journey.</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly</title>
		<link>http://herablehands.com/2008/05/08/spring-cleaning-inside-and-out/#comment-63558</link>
		<dc:creator>Kelly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 10:10:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Suzanne, thank you so much for your incredibly kind and supportive words. I don't think I realized that your MIL lives with  you. It's such a mix of blessing and hell, I imagine. Tho I do think that my response about not ever being paid for the house cleaning would be something along the lines of "that was called room and board etc..." 

I think it's definitely generational and her now deceased husband was a total and complete control freak so she is not much of an independent thinker. I have more to say on that and will be blogging more about it as this goes on. Funny, I've been feeling all blogged out with the kitchen garden schtick...3 years of the same seasons rolling around. Time to write about something else. xo. kelly</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Suzanne, thank you so much for your incredibly kind and supportive words. I don&#8217;t think I realized that your MIL lives with  you. It&#8217;s such a mix of blessing and hell, I imagine. Tho I do think that my response about not ever being paid for the house cleaning would be something along the lines of &#8220;that was called room and board etc&#8230;&#8221; </p>
<p>I think it&#8217;s definitely generational and her now deceased husband was a total and complete control freak so she is not much of an independent thinker. I have more to say on that and will be blogging more about it as this goes on. Funny, I&#8217;ve been feeling all blogged out with the kitchen garden schtick&#8230;3 years of the same seasons rolling around. Time to write about something else. xo. kelly</p>
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		<title>By: Darcy</title>
		<link>http://herablehands.com/2008/05/08/spring-cleaning-inside-and-out/#comment-63532</link>
		<dc:creator>Darcy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 14:47:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You have so many gifts, there is no doubt in my mind that whichever path you choose will lead you to greatness.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You have so many gifts, there is no doubt in my mind that whichever path you choose will lead you to greatness.</p>
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		<title>By: Cathy</title>
		<link>http://herablehands.com/2008/05/08/spring-cleaning-inside-and-out/#comment-63531</link>
		<dc:creator>Cathy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 14:11:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, this may sound a bit radical but I've found that old people do well when not everything is done for them.  It does seem to help them focus and get on with things, to feel vital...if that's any comfort.  Give yourself a big hug and congratulate yourself for having been so good and kind.  None of us do it perfectly and it's okay.

I love how beautifully and peacefully you're walking into change.  It's never easy to know what we haven't fully experienced and there is a leap of faith at some point, seems to me.  But good to sit and feel how this is over a period of time, to feel what works best for your sense of yourself and your family, for your deepest loves and goals.  It's all good!  And all the paths are good too!  I do believe that!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, this may sound a bit radical but I&#8217;ve found that old people do well when not everything is done for them.  It does seem to help them focus and get on with things, to feel vital&#8230;if that&#8217;s any comfort.  Give yourself a big hug and congratulate yourself for having been so good and kind.  None of us do it perfectly and it&#8217;s okay.</p>
<p>I love how beautifully and peacefully you&#8217;re walking into change.  It&#8217;s never easy to know what we haven&#8217;t fully experienced and there is a leap of faith at some point, seems to me.  But good to sit and feel how this is over a period of time, to feel what works best for your sense of yourself and your family, for your deepest loves and goals.  It&#8217;s all good!  And all the paths are good too!  I do believe that!!</p>
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		<title>By: kate</title>
		<link>http://herablehands.com/2008/05/08/spring-cleaning-inside-and-out/#comment-63530</link>
		<dc:creator>kate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 13:40:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>. . . such an open-hearted post . . . i'm so glad for this peek into your living . . . so beautiful to see you gracefully hold the bs and the magic of humaness all at the same time . . . this life thing is just so wild . . . lovin you . . . :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>. . . such an open-hearted post . . . i&#8217;m so glad for this peek into your living . . . so beautiful to see you gracefully hold the bs and the magic of humaness all at the same time . . . this life thing is just so wild . . . lovin you . . . <img src='http://herablehands.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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