I am so glad you both are ok! And I thought I got worried when my cats get out… Yes, we should get together for lunch or even just tea, much less pressure/ planning then dinner. Although if you get a full time job, I am sure you will be too busy… Good luck anyway! And if you haven’t read “To Hell With all That: Loving and Loathing our Inner Housewife” by Caitlin Flanagan, by all means do so. Our local library has it (or will have it as soon as I return it!) It really looks at the whole working outside/ inside the home problem. From a mother/ writer prospective. No clear cut answers, of course, but it will make you feel not alone in the world. I laughed and related even though I don’t have kids. It’s a fast read, but don’t feel bad if you don’t pick it up. As I am writing this, I am remembering that I usually don’t read books people recomend. But I just had to mention it anyway.
A similar thing happened a couple of years ago with my daughter (then 10 years old). We were crossing a busy street with traffic that was stopped. My instinct said to do it at the light but my brother-in-law who was with us started acrossed. I remember thinking, well we’ve made eye contact with the people we are crossing in front of so I guess its okay. When we neared the other side my daughter started to run to go acrossed the shoulder just as a police car was whipping up the shoulder. The policeman was being an idiot because it is an area with a lot of foot traffic. My brother-in-law was trying to grab her but missed. I screamed for her to stop and thank goodness she did because the police car missed her by less than a foot. I still almost cry thinking that in an instant I could have lost her. She could be gone. For me it was so unreal that it was almost like it was just a bad dream. Scarey!
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"In summer we live out of doors, and have only impulses and feelings, which are all for action, and must wait commonly for the stillness and longer nights of autumn and winter before any thought will subside; we are sensible that behind the rustling leaves, and the stacks of grain, and the bare clusters of the grape, there is the field of a wholly new life, which no man has lived; that even this earth was made for more mysterious and nobler inhabitants than men and women. In the hues of October sunsets, we see the portals to other mansions than those which we occupy."
~Henry David Thoreau
July 4th, 2006 at 8:34 am
Honey–reading that made me want to cry. Hugs and all that.
July 5th, 2006 at 8:22 am
I am so glad you both are ok! And I thought I got worried when my cats get out… Yes, we should get together for lunch or even just tea, much less pressure/ planning then dinner. Although if you get a full time job, I am sure you will be too busy… Good luck anyway! And if you haven’t read “To Hell With all That: Loving and Loathing our Inner Housewife” by Caitlin Flanagan, by all means do so. Our local library has it (or will have it as soon as I return it!) It really looks at the whole working outside/ inside the home problem. From a mother/ writer prospective. No clear cut answers, of course, but it will make you feel not alone in the world. I laughed and related even though I don’t have kids. It’s a fast read, but don’t feel bad if you don’t pick it up. As I am writing this, I am remembering that I usually don’t read books people recomend. But I just had to mention it anyway.
July 5th, 2006 at 8:26 am
Sorry I posted that twice, I got an error message the first time. Maybe you can delete one along with the Phamamx ad?
July 5th, 2006 at 8:20 pm
Hugs, it’s terrifying being a mom.
July 10th, 2006 at 6:42 am
A similar thing happened a couple of years ago with my daughter (then 10 years old). We were crossing a busy street with traffic that was stopped. My instinct said to do it at the light but my brother-in-law who was with us started acrossed. I remember thinking, well we’ve made eye contact with the people we are crossing in front of so I guess its okay. When we neared the other side my daughter started to run to go acrossed the shoulder just as a police car was whipping up the shoulder. The policeman was being an idiot because it is an area with a lot of foot traffic. My brother-in-law was trying to grab her but missed. I screamed for her to stop and thank goodness she did because the police car missed her by less than a foot. I still almost cry thinking that in an instant I could have lost her. She could be gone. For me it was so unreal that it was almost like it was just a bad dream. Scarey!