Divorce! Re-Marriage! Blended Families! Oh My!
There’s one topic I haven’t touched on much in my writing, mainly because it involves other people and I feared it would be hard to do in a way that would keep already hurt feelings from being hurt more. But I recently put together an application for one of those paid blogger positions at Club Mom, with the idea to blog about living after divorce in a blended family. It’s a circumstance that directs my life every day. The fact of my choosing to divorce and remarry, to have another child and to move to another state is the foundation that my family life sits on. It has also shaped Tyler’s father’s life in ways I can’t ever really know.
In coming up with sample posts, I started an engaging conversation with myself, and the old, crippling judgments and fears of talking about this part of my life melted away. A lot of topics came to mind, and I’ve been keeping a growing list. Now every time I sit down to write, my fingers itch to get that conversation going with all of you.
I’m sure a half a million Moms Who Blog sent in applications and poor Meredith Vieira & Andrew Shue & Co. have an unmanageable amount of words to slog through to get to their decisions. I have no expectations. If I don’t get the job I intend to write about it with some regularity on this site. On the more than off-chance that I do get the job? Well, I’ll need five posts a week, so, you won’t be reading about it here. But that will also mean that I’m getting paid to blog, which is a beautiful thing. I think.











"In summer we live out of doors, and have only impulses and feelings, which are all for action, and must wait commonly for the stillness and longer nights of autumn and winter before any thought will subside; we are sensible that behind the rustling leaves, and the stacks of grain, and the bare clusters of the grape, there is the field of a wholly new life, which no man has lived; that even this earth was made for more mysterious and nobler inhabitants than men and women. In the hues of October sunsets, we see the portals to other mansions than those which we occupy."
~Henry David Thoreau


March 31st, 2006 at 7:43 pm
Well, if you don’t get it, we can have our own little club — because there’s no way I’m getting it. Every idea I hear sounds better than mine, but I figured if I didn’t apply then it was just going to be a self-fulfilling prophecy. Gotta at least try, even if it means laughing at yourself a lot later.
March 31st, 2006 at 9:45 pm
You inspire me, Sugar. For reals.
April 4th, 2006 at 12:50 pm
. . . perfect subject for you to blog about - you have done really cool and unique things - not to mention you have shown such incredible compassion and creativity with it all . . . you’ve blown me away on many many occcasion . . . you *and* The CM
January 3rd, 2007 at 1:59 am
great blog…
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